224. Step-parents and Building relationships

*Second marriage divorce rates are sky high, and one of the most often cited reasons is the kids. Erica and I discuss why this is and how people can do it differently to decrease their chances of the marriage ending. Even if you're in your first marriage, there are great truths here to help you parent your own children.
*Please note that earlier today, episode 223 was published and it is an accidental repeat of an earlier episode. I was going to delete it and noticed that it already had a high number of downloads so I am just publishing the correct episode at #224

 

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223. There is value in engaging those with whom we disagree.

It's ok to be upset by someone's words. It's not ok to try and shut them down. What are the benefits of engaging in disagreement? Erica stops by, and we have a fun conversation about what's wrong in the world and how to fix it. That last part's a joke, probably.

 

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222. Maybe our kid's behaviors are a mirror for us for self examination

What if our kid's behaviors are a mirror for us to examine our actions and attitudes and then adjust accordingly?
We've all been there; our kids aren't doing what we want or, worse, doing something we've told them not to do. We feel like we've told them 1000 times not to do it or start doing it...whatever it is.
So we rachet up the intensity, and often we get behavior modification. But is that actually a win? What is really a win?
My wife stops by, and we discuss this from our professional and personal lives.

 

 

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221. How much satisfaction are you getting out of the relationships that have the most of your time?

Relationships are the best indicator of how satisfied we will be in our lives across almost all of the research. Let's explore some questions that can help us be confident that we are putting effort into the right relationships.

 

 

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220. Let's Talk About Sex (Part 3)

Erica and I finish part three of our talk on sex. This is probably not an episode where you want little kids in the car while listening. Most phrases are couched in such a way to communicate without being blatant, but the topic may not be one you want young kids joining in on. Parental discretion is advised.

 

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219. Let's talk about Sex (Part 2). What Role do Women's Actions Play?

In part two of our conversation about sex, my wife and I discuss things that women do that can hurt the relationship sexually and, of course, how they can improve the relationship sexually.

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215. Seven Questions to Propel You into the New Year

The joke has been made that New Year's resolutions are to-do lists for the first week of a new year. In this episode, I explore seven questions that help us move away from resolutions to a deeper understanding of how we're living our lives and offer us the opportunity to explore how we might want to live our lives.

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